May is Mental Health Awareness Month

May is Mental Health Awareness Month

Children and adolescents thrive in today’s world, despite the many challenges they face. Fostering positive relationships, developing resiliency as a response to adversity, and increasing the capacity to cope are essential elements of good mental health. Adults play a critical role in fostering assets that lead to positive mental health in children.

The Fairfax County Youth Survey provides a wealth of information about a variety of topics related to our youth, from sleep and nutritional habits to protective factors and risk factors that influence their physical and mental well being. In addition, substance abuse behaviors and symptoms of depression, levels of stress, bullying, and suicidal thoughts and feelings are also reported. The survey has identified the following school, home, and community-based assets as being associated with reduced symptoms of depression in youth and lower participation in risk taking behaviors: having high personal integrity, performing community service, having teachers recognize good work, having community adults to talk to, participating in extracurricular and having parents available for help.

Our “Three to Succeed” message and data from the Youth Survey show how having just three assets dramatically reduces risk behaviors in youth. For example, 34% of youth with 0 assets reported drinking alcohol in the last 30 days, versus only 19% who indicated they had 3 assets, and only 10% of students who responded as having 6 assets.

All adults can foster certain protective factors, whether they are parents, school staff or community members.

Family Based Assets

  • Having parents available for help – be available after school and/or on weekends
  • Parents knowing children’s whereabouts – asking them let’s them know you care
  • Family members are respectful to each other – handle differences with respect

School Based Assets

  • Feeling safe at school – provide a caring and secure classroom environment
  • Having the opportunity to talk to teachers one on one – offer sign-up times
  • Teachers recognizing good work – take the time to identify what a student did well

Community based assets

  • Having adults available to talk – whether you’re a neighbor, coach, or faith leader
  • Extracurricular activities – offer to be a parent volunteer, or organize a fundraiser or volunteer activity


Resiliency

Resiliency is the capacity to overcome adversity by responding in healthy and productive ways to successfully meet life’s challenges. Fairfax County Public Schools believes that all youth have the capacity for resilience. We believe it is important for our schools, families, and communities to provide needed supports for youth that foster resiliency to support them now and in the future. Building resiliency in our youth is critical to their ultimate success and enjoyment in life.

Similar to the assets identified in the Fairfax County Youth Survey, research by Nan Henderson, founder of Resiliency in Action, offers six resiliency builders or external protective factors that all adults can foster in children. 

Increasing pro-social behavior – Provide opportunities for positive connections with adults and peers. Encourage children to participate in group activities that they enjoy, volunteer to be a coach or mentor.

Set clear, consistent, boundaries – Set rules at home and at school. Children do best when they understand the limits within which they can operate.

Teach life skills – Model and discuss how to handle conflict respectfully, how to persevere when problem-solving, how to stand up (advocate) for themselves

Set and communicate high expectations – By setting realistic, yet challenging goals you are telling a child, “I believe in you.”

Provide opportunities for meaningful participation – Let youth have a voice in setting classroom rules, or choosing what’s for dinner.


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