Time to Talk and Check-In - let's keep talking

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Your Wellbeing Matters

Your Wellbeing Matters

4 February 2021

#TimeToTalk  #WYHCheckIn  #StillHereToHelp  #KeepHope 


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Time to Talk - let's make mental health everyone's priority

We are very proud to support Time to Talk Day on Thursday 4 February

This day is a chance for all of us to make time for a chat with others, whether about mental health, or any everyday topic.

Let's get talking, and if someone does wants to open up about how they are feeling, well that's powerful.

After all, a small conversation has the power to make a big difference.


Anne Lloyd, Director of HR

The COVID-19 pandemic has turned all of our lives upside down in many ways and we have all been thrown into often difficult and challenging circumstances.

There has never been a better time for us to reach out and support each other's mental wellbeing - a family member, neighbour or colleague - and start that ‘small conversation’. After all, who knows where it will take you. The power of one small conversation could change someone's day and also your own... and make a BIG difference.

Take time to support each other as colleagues, friends, managers, and let's make mental health everyone's priority today, and every day.

Anne Lloyd, Director of Human Resources, said: 

"Mental illness is a challenge, it is not a weakness. We need to talk more about mental health, and invite others to talk about it too. We talk to one another about our aches, breaks and pains, our colds – so why not talk about mental health. It needn't be tricky, taboo or feel like you're overstepping the mark.

"Why should anyone feel they have to fake being well. We should all be able to bring our whole selves to work and thrive. I encourage everyone to be brave and take action. Talk to a colleague, your manager, your team member about mental health.''


coffee cup

Feeling tongue-tied?

Here are a few ideas of ways to support colleagues and help to break the silence.

  1. Arrange a virtual coffee morning and ask people how they are doing, encourage topics around mental wellbeing.
  2. Send a colleague a message, phone them or arrange a virtual meeting. It doesn't need to all be about work - just checking in with someone and ringing to say 'hello, how are you?' can make a huge difference.
  3. Managers – check in with your team and encourage other line managers to do the same. Ask staff how they are coping, what support you can offer and ensure they know to speak to you if they are struggling to manage competing pressures.  
  4. Don't be afraid to ask someone how they are doing. You don't have to be an expert if they do want to open up - often a friendly ear can make a big difference.

Read more about Time to Talk Day 2021 on the Time to Change website.

Posters

There are a number of Time to Talk posters available which can be displayed in workplaces. We've downloaded our favourites onto our Bradnet article, or if you don't have access you can find a full range on the Time to Talk website.  

Time to talk - the power of small - a small conversation can make a big difference

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When was the last time you checked-in with a colleague?

Check-In is a new campaign aimed at preventing staff suicide.

It is being led by organisations across West Yorkshire and Harrogate and aims to prevent the tragedy of staff suicide by promoting a wellbeing culture and encouraging conversations around suicide and mental health.

How are you feeling today? How regularly do you check-in with colleagues asking the same? 

Linking in with Time to Talk Day, even a small conversation can help someone share how they feel, lessen their burden, and help them feel more connected.

But how do you start a conversation about suicide and mental health? It's not the easiest subject to broach.

Start off by simply talking and connecting, and showing you are there to listen. A few words can make a world of difference. Watch this one minute video to find out more:

Preventing suicide at work video

The new staffcheck-in.co.uk website has a range of support and resources to help. It includes a large database of support around West Yorkshire. Please take a look.  

staffcheck-in.co.uk 

Training gives you the confidence to help

Zero Suicide Alliance's suicide awareness training is free, only takes 20 minutes, and it could save a life.

It may help you spot the signs of someone struggling with suicidal thoughts amongst colleagues, staff, friends or family.

The training will give you the skills and confidence to help someone who may be considering suicide.

In England there were 5,316 confirmed deaths to suicide in 2019. This is an average of 102 people dying every week. Suicide is the biggest killer of people under the age of 35 and the biggest killer of men under the age of 50.

COVID-19 has added unprecedented pressures to everyone's lives and whether colleagues have previously experienced mental health concerns or not we're all finding it hard right now.

Take the training below, spot the signs and let's look after our own and our colleagues' mental wellbeing as a priority. 

Zero Suicide Alliance training

Bereavement support

Suicide is a sensitive subject and may upset some people. Grief and Loss Support Service offers information and advice to anyone struggling with feelings of loss, whether as a result of bereavement or other loss such as loss of a way of life, normal contact opportunities, social and work interactions.

For further support and resources visit staffcheck-in.co.uk

Posters for workplaces

Suicide prevention posters are available for teams to print out and display, attached to the end of our Check-In Bradnet article. If you don't have access to Bradnet you also download the posters from the toolkit on the Staff Check-In website.  

Staff Check-In


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COVID: support and advice in our District (self care booklet)

If you're finding things hard right now, you're far from alone. Community Action Bradford & District (CABAD), along with Bradford Council and the NHS have created a self-care booklet full of really useful information and support.

​Don’t forget, services are #StillHereToHelp during the Covid-19 pandemic for anyone who needs help.

Topics covered in the booklet are: 

  • Self-isolation and Coronavirus guidance including the tier system
  • Mental health, including anxiety and depression, grief and loss and crisis
  • Isolation and loneliness
  • Support for those caring for other people
  • Domestic abuse
  • Your local NHS, including how this is operating at this time
  • Food and fuel poverty
  • Finances and bill support
  • Statutory sick pay
  • Self-employed income support scheme
  • Furlough scheme and business grants.

Download here:

Self-care booklet


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Join the Living Well 20 minute movement!

Are you joining the 20 Minute Movement? 

It's simply about getting everyone moving for 20 minutes or more each and every day. 

No fancy gyms. No fancy trainers. No expensive equipment.

You could break up your 20 minutes and do 10 minutes in the morning and another 10 minutes later on. It's that easy. Joining the movement is about making a promise to yourself that moving more can help you feel better about yourself.

Living Well has teamed up with some amazing local people to show just how easy it is to be more active.  You can see what they're doing for the 20 Minute Movement on billboards and posters around the district and also on social media (@MyLivingWell1)

You can also find lots of information, ideas and tips to get you started on our website, visit us at:

www.mylivingwell.co.uk


A mindful moment - 'Morning Walk'

"No one will ever be able to tell me that getting up and out at sunrise is not worthwhile."

Kirsty Breaks-Holdsworth shared a beautiful account of her morning walk in our staff Facebook group earlier this week. With her kind permission we are sharing some of it here.

Morning Walk

"I wake in the dark and instantly feel anxious about the day ahead.  Tiredly, I grab my dressing gown, head downstairs and put the coffee machine on whilst fumbling around setting my laptop up for a new week. My mind is racing as I sip my coffee and log in.  Before the coffee is finished I decide that my time will be better spent if I get outdoors first, so I grab yesterday's clothes from the bedroom floor, stir my husband and children towards wakefulness and step outdoors. 

"The cold instantly hits me, there's been a hard frost, visible on the road under the street lights like a child has gone mad with craft glitter. A car engine is idling in a lazy defrost and it makes me keen to escape the beginning of the suburban morning.  I've not bothered with a head torch because I know that the first light of morning will soon be upon me and I head off down the snicket between the houses towards the bridleway and away from the artificial light.  In the absence of light my ears quickly focus and although unseen, the wren in the hedgerow to my left is loud and clear and I can tell that the watercourse to my right is still flowing high after the recent wet weather.  A blackbird ghosts silently across my path as I head towards the last road before I reach open countryside and I scare a cock pheasant to a loud crow as I climb the steps and swing my leg over the cold metal crash barrier."

If you'd like to read the rest of this please take a look on Bradnet or on our staff Facebook group page (you will need to join the group if you haven't already).

Read more on Bradnet

 

Visit the staff Facebook page


Sunrise at St Aidens by Kirsty Breaks-Holdsworth

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