Gallatin County in Montana has a Father Engagement Program because the importance of having an engaged father is invaluable.

The program is designed specifically for dads with children prenatal to age 5 (which is the same as the WIC Population). Their Father Engagement Program is housed with WIC under the Maternal Child Health Department.  

Patrick Duganz, the Father Engagement Specialist, says he makes one-on-one visits to dads with the maternal, infant, and early childhood home visiting program (MIECHV) and refers all eligible women, infants, and children to the WIC program.

He also provides dads with breastfeeding support advice for the women in their life. Patrick says it is helpful for breastfeeding moms to have a designated space for feeding their babies.  This area should be lower in stimuli and is separate from pets and older children, so mom can rest while she is breastfeeding and include water and snacks for nourishment.

Not only do kids love spending time together, having an involved dad leads to:

• Better grades
• Lower teen pregnancy rates
• Lower drug use
• Lower crime rates
• Lower aggression

Dads play an important role in breastfeeding support as well.

The relationship between mom and baby is special, but so is baby's bond with dad. While breastfeeding may make dad feel a little left out, here are some tips on how dad and baby can grow close:

1. Make time for hugs and cuddles. Human touch is soothing for both you and your baby. Let your baby rest on your chest when lounging around at home.
2. Talk and sing. Talk or sing to your baby throughout the day, keeping your face close and your eyes on baby.
3. Play games. Make silly faces, play peek-a-boo, or sing songs for baby. Set aside regular time for this so that as baby grows, this special time becomes a part of your daily routine.
4. Keep it moving. Carry your baby in a sling or front carrier on walks or as you go about your daily routine.
5. Help with baby care. You can soothe, bathe, change, dress, and burp your baby. You can also sit and keep mom company during feedings. This helps you bond with baby and supports your partner.

How dads can help support their breastfeeding partners.

1.  Watch for hunger signs. Learn your baby's hunger cues so that you can bring your baby to your partner for nursing sessions.
2. Limit visitors. New moms need plenty of rest! Help limit the number of visitors that come to your home.
3. Go the extra mile. Help with chores. Run errands, cook, clean, and do laundry. If mom needs something while she's breastfeeding, offer to get it for her. If you have other children, take care of them so your partner can focus on breastfeeding.
4. Offer encouragement. Help your partner feel good about herself. Tell her you're proud of her and that she's doing a great job. Try to do something special for her.
5. Defend your choice. Not everyone will understand your and your partner's decision to breastfeed. You can be the first line of defense against negative comments and anyone who tries to discourage your partner from breastfeeding.